I'm so DAMN tired of hearing that men want a "real woman" but the most natural beauty is overlooked and surpassed what you WANT is a girl covered in makeup with naval rings and lesbian tendencies. A woman that wears a pushup bra to compensate for what she doesn't have, high heels to make her taller and tight clothes that just happen to show her best ASSets, because that's whats SEXy but Id rather be beautiful and rock my Nike's with my comfy jeans and a tank top. No make up or "pushups" to show off what I have to offer because I guarantee you the way i look when you first see me is the way I look all the time.. Beautiful to myself and comfortable in my own skin. Without needing the reassurance of "beauty" that fades when I wash my face. No running mascara or popping red lipstick. My skins naturally soft, cheeks are always pink because of the smile my face holds and eyes that don't need makeup to make them noticeable. the definition of a real woman. my legs aren't toned because I walk in heels and lift weights at the gym. they are toned because i chase a 5 year old around a park and play fetch with my dogs. my breasts aren't big because there fake there big because I've carried and nurtured a child. i spend all day chasing children. soothing minds of my niece's and nephews, camping outback of the house in tents and paddle boating with them. fishing and hiking 6 miles. carrying the weight of the world but being light enough on my feet to know "that this to shall pass". waking up to screaming kids going to work and coming home and doing what i have to do. reading bedtimes stories and cooking full course meals. so before you claim you want a "real woman" understand what REAL means. because anything or anyone else that doesn't have REAL traits are as fake as the eyeshadow she put on to disguise the way she feels about herself..